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Parshas Noach-פרשת נח

October 27, 2011 // Posted in Weekly Parsha Divrei Torah (Tags: ) |  No Comments

‘Noach was a righteous man, perfect in his generation.’ (6; 9)

Rashi on the words ‘in his generation’ notes, that there are those who say this is a praise ;had Noach lived in the times of tzadikim he would also have been considered righteous. Others argue and state the opposite- had he been living in other times he would have not been such a tzadik.

One can ask, if we’re able to take this word (b’dorosov) as a praise, why would we try to take this word the other way, as a g’nai?

There’s a gemara in Sanhedrin (108:2) that asks a question on a Pasuk from our parsha.  The Pasuk says ‘from all the kosher animal you shall take seven and seven; ‘man and his wife’; and from the non kosher, two; man and his wife’ (7; 2). This pasuk seems a bit odd. Where do we ever find a concept of husband and wife by animals? Is there a concept of marriage by animals? The gemara answers that since they only mated with their own kind we used this type of wording.

The Aruch in his explanation on the side of the gemara continues to pursue this question.  He notes that the gemara seems a bit puzzling because it still never answered the question. All the gemara said was that they remained faithful. The question, however, remains: is there a concept of marriage (of man and wife) by animals?

The Aruch answers and says, from the fact that the animals didn’t mate with others who were not from their kind, the Torah elevated their status due to their behavior and treated them as if there is a concept of Ishus by animals. These animals were living in a corrupt world and they elevated themselves. They were so exalted, that they were on the level of human beings.

Why is the gemara telling us this?  The Torah wanted to highlight their behavior, to show us that all these animals were special because of how they behaved. By using a loshon of ishus the Torah praised their behavior.

The Chofetz Chaim says that this is the explanation for those who understood the word b’dorosov as a derogatory description. If Noach would have lived in the times of Avraham Avinu he wouldn’t have necessarily been a tzadik and he may not have even reached the level of greatness like Avraham Avinu did. But the Torah nonetheless considered Noach a tzadik due to the level of his surroundings. Noach was living in a corrupted world where he could’ve easily assimilated with the ‘regulars’ and used excuses like ‘everybody’s doing it’.  But he didn’t; he was not willing to be influenced by his surroundings. It was this that saved him from the destruction of the Mabul. The Torah wanted to inform us that if one has the ability to ignore his surroundings, then we can characterize that person as a tzadik. Despite the fact that he may not have been considered a tzadik in a different generation, Noach received this prestigious title for his ability to reach his level in his generation by overcoming his challenges

It’s an important lesson for us all to learn from Noach. We’re living in an unethical society where we are easily influenced by everything that is going on around us. It’s up to us to make sure we stand out and are highlighted from our neighbors, from our society. How do we do that? By standing firm on the ways of the Torah and not going with the flow. The more gedarim a person makes the more one elevates himself.  Even if we are not perfect at times, we can be classified as tzadikim by simply being better than our surroundings. We will then be called a tzadik in the eyes of Hashem for not being swept along with this filthy current.

May Hashem give us all the strength not be influenced by our surroundings and to be included in the title of tzadikm.

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Succos 5772-חג הסוכות תשע”ב

October 11, 2011 // Posted in Yomim Tovim (Tags: ) |  No Comments

The Yom Tov of Succos is the culmination of the Yomim Noyraim. The mitzvah of lulav is a symbol of our victory in din, akin to someone raising their hands high in victory upon leaving a courthouse in triumph.

Rav Nosson Wachtfogel Zt”l, asks, what connection does Succos have to the yom hadin? There seems to be no connection between the fasting and praying of Yom Kippur and the feasting and joyous atmosphere of Succos.   

The Lakewood Mashgiach, zt”l, gives a beautiful and inspiring explanation.

There is a Gemara that details the terrible yesurim of Rebbi. The gemara says that the yesurim came because of a specific ‘incident’ and it left because of another specific ‘incident’. What was the ‘incident that the gemara is referring to? The gemara states that one day while Rebbi was walking, a small calf which had run away from the slaughterhouse curled up against his leg and crawled under his coat. It seemed as if it was seeking shelter. Rebbi looked at the little calf and said “go…shew….for this is what you were created for.  You have to be slaughtered.” It was because of this incident that he suffered terribly for the rest of his life.

However, the gemara asks “the end result for an animal is to be killed” so what was the terrible sin of Rebbi. In essence he was speaking the truth and doing the ‘proper thing?’

The yesod is as follows: even if a person is undeserving of any hospitality, if he arrives at your doorstop and wants to be taken under your wings, you must show rachamim. There’s a different level of accountability once someone is in your domain; you have to treat him properly and respect him. Indeed the little calf was created to get killed, but not withstanding that fact when he came under the coat of Rebbi, he should have been extra sensitive and showed special pity towards it. Since Rebbi neglected to do that, he suffered terribly for the rest of his life. As Succos follows Yom Kippur, it’s always when we have just finished a day of forgiveness, fasting and judgment and we don’t know what our fate will be.  But we quickly jump and enter into a Succah, which is the house of Hashem. Why? What is the connection? Because no matter what our judgment is, when we’re in the house of Hashem, the baal habayis has to show us mercy even if we’re undeserving. And while we are in the Succah, we can rest assured that we will get that extra special mercy!

Every day of the chag while we’re sitting in the Succah, we should remember idea this and know that when we’re in the house of Hashem he will treat us with his special care. On the flip side, we must behave accordingly because we are in his house; the two go hand in hand. With this I hope we all had an easy and meaningful fast and with the help of Hashem this should be the last yom tov in golus and iy”h next year we should all be in Succos Bais Dovid….in Yerushalayim.

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Yom Kippur 5772-יום כיפור תשע”ב

October 6, 2011 // Posted in Yomim Tovim (Tags: ) |  No Comments

The Rambam in Hilchos Teshuva writes, ‘What is a true teshuva? First, one must stop doing the aveira, then remove it from his thoughts and lastly accept in his heart to never do it again. Finally, regret what you did’. He ends off by saying, ‘and Hashem himself has to testify on behalf of the person-that he will never do it again’; meaning, a person has to be so adamant about never committing the sin again that Hashem can testify on his behalf. That is how strong his desire to never do that aveira again must be.

The question that bothers me is that there are unfortunately very common aveiros that people commit daily. If the Rambam is stating that real teshuva is when one sincerely regrets his acts to the extent that Hashem can testify for him-this seems to imply if he were to ever do that aveira again, his original teshuva was not accepted? That testimonial sounds very frightening. It would come out you that one would never be forgiven. Can it be that no one is ever forgiven except for the person who never ever did that same aveira again?

The gemara in Rosh Hashana (16b) says ‘the Ribono Shel Olam judges a person according to how he is acting right now.’ The gemara brings proof from the Torah from Yishmael. Rashi quotes a Medrash “the Angels in heaven asked Hashem “why save Yishmael if he will only destroy your grandchildren in future generations?” Hashem replied “Right now, is he a tzadik or a rasha?” The Angels responded “He is a tzadik.” Said Hashem, “I judge the (people in the) world in the present state that they are in right now.”

Rabbeinu Chananel brings a Yerushalmi which says that when Hashem judges a person he doesn’t ask if he was pure and straight, but rather is he pure and straight right now.

Explains the Mahabit (in Sefer Bais Elokim-Sha’ar haTeshuva) that when Hashem judges us, it’s a special chesed for klal yisroel. It’s a day in which in of itself is holy and Hashem says to us ‘My children, I am coming down to judge you.  And you should know, that I will judge you by your behavior on that day.’ What’s in your heart right now? What do you want to be right now? How are you right now? The Chayei Adam uses the same language as the Rambam but he adds two very important words, which are: ‘b’osah sha’ah.’- at that time. Hashem, with his extraordinary power of chesed, judges us by how we act on Yom Kippur itself.

The moment a person is standing in shul-and beating his chest-is the moment that a person is on a level that if he were to remain on that level all year long and an aveira were to come his way, he would be able to overcome his yetzer hara and avoid sinning; that is ba’asher hu shum. Climb the ladder; strive to get to that level; you’re then a ba’al teshuva. Hashem is able to testify at that moment that you’ll never do the aveira again. (If a person does indeed sin after that, the reason must be because he’s not on that level anymore. Of course his teshuva was accepted but he slipped from his level.) That’s the avodah of Yom Kippur; to push ourselves to get to that level.

If we were to take this a step further we can ask ourselves, is this really true? All a person needs is to be on that level for one minute for his teshuva to be accepted? How is that possible and how does that work?

To answer this let us ask a basic question: how does teshuva work? Ramchal answers this by asking, what if someone kills a person but later regrets it? Does his regret really work? The person is still dead. Just because he regrets it does not undo what was done. How does a person undo something if it can’t be reversed?

The chiddush is that once a person removes and regrets the desire that he had at the time of the act-we view it as an action that he didn’t desire. If you’re able to remove the willingness and consent from the action, you’re in essence removing your will from the action and you just disassociated yourself from this action! Once a person gets to that level-even for a minute-what you have accomplished was that you removed your will from the action-and since you’re not associated with it anymore we can now accept your teshuva!

When dealing with teshuva one has to try to distance themselves from the actions they have done. That is done by taking away the will; even for a minute-if you get to the madrega that you regret it so strong that Hashem can testify on your behalf-you have achieved removing your will from the action.

One should acknowledge that it’s a fabulous chesed that Hashem only judges us on this day, at this time- the time we are in shul-and not any other time of the year-and He allows us to be judged when everyone’s mind and hearts are set on doing the right thing. A person has to work on himself from the beginning of Yom Kippur to the end of Yom Kippur and try to climb the ladder to attain the level that if he were to maintain that madrega all year, he would not commit a sin. If one does that he can be sure that his teshuva will be valid and acceptable.

Wishing all my readers, and all of klal Yisroel a Gmar Chasim Tova & a Gut Gebentched Yur.

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